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August 2006
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True Dharma Confessions
Anne Cushman recounts her adventure seeking romance online through the Buddhist singles Web sites

The idea comes up as a joke. I’m a journalist and a newly single Buddhist mom. Why don’t I investigate the new online “dharma dating” sites, and write about my experiences? I found the idea both intriguing and horrifying. For years I’ve mocked the idea of shopping for a mate the way you’d shop for a book on Amazon.com. But lately, several of my friends have met partners online; several others have had fun going out for dinners, movies and hikes with people they’d never would have known without the Internet. According to Business Week Online, almost 5 percent of the U.S. population is now listed on Match.com. Arranging dates through Buddhist sites promises something novel: a wide assortment of potential friends, all of them single and sharing a primary interest in spiritual practise. As a mating strategy, it probably beats cruising a vipassana retreat.

After my marriage went down in flames, romance was initially the last thing on my mind. (Perhaps this had something to do with the fact that I was still wearing a nursing bra.) And at this point, I’ve been around long enough to know that a romantic partner is not a guaranteed ticket to a dukkha-free life. Love, it seems to me, is a combination of serendipity and hard work. Wouldn’t I be better off using my time and energy rooting out the cause of my suffering— craving—at its source? Shouldn’t I focus on contemplating emptiness and interdependence to the point where I’d get just as much joy from an evening alone sorting socks as from a night making passionate love in front of a fire to Indian sitar music?

Oh, who am I kidding? “Sure,” I tell my editor. “I’ll check it out.”

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Hidden Valley Artist Retreat
Accommodations and Facility for Rent

Escondido, CA
Like the countryside of Italy and Provence, this little corner in San Diego County has 10 acres of landscaped gardens, terraces, benches, flowerbeds and water fountains. We offer retreats for individuals and small groups.

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Green House Retreat Center
Property for Sale

Christina Lake, BC Canada
The Green House is a graciously renovated farmhouse with 5 bedrooms, 4 bathrooms, an upstairs common room, a charming living room with fireplace, a spacious wrap-around veranda, a generous hot tub, 2 sunrooms, and a beautiful dining space off of the superb kitchen.

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Servant Song Ministries Retreat House & Spirituality Center
Accommodations and Facility for Rent

Waynesburg, PA
Servant Song is an ecumenical, collaborative ministry that encourages and promotes spiritual growth and enrichment through prayer, silence, retreats, education, and spiritual direction in the Christian tradition.

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Trail's End Retreat and Conference Center
Facility for Rent for Group Retreats

Beach Lake, PA
Widely recognized as one of the top facilities in residential children’s’ summer camping, Trail’s End is pleased to offer you the opportunity to host your next corporate. Located in the Northeast corner of Pennsylvania on beautiful Beach Lake, the 450 sprawling acres provide guests with the best of the Pocono Mountains

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Harmony Hill of Union
Facility for Rent for Group Retreats

Union, WA Our facilities are available for both single-day and overnight events. Rentals include delicious whole- foods meals prepared by our gifted kitchen staff, meeting room space, plus use of grounds and labyrinths. For a visual taste of our facilities, visit our virtual tour.

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Mark Thornton, Meditation in a New York Minute: Super Calm for the Super Busy, Sounds True Inc, Boulder CO, 2004. $12.95
Although reading the book will take more than a minute, the skills described can be applied in less than a minute to reduce stress symptoms over an entire lifetime. For those ‘Super Busy’ inclined toward meditation, Mark Thornton, a former COO for a major international banking firm, provides an easily accessible introduction to instant stress reduction through meditation. Written in plain language and chock full of quick reading concept diagrams, tips and exercises the text focuses on creating ‘micro- breaks’ for calm in the midst of hectic activity. Stripping meditation of its philosophy and theology, Thornton offers only its core techniques for fast assimilation by those with little time for the lotus position. Focusing on how-to rather than why, Thornton details specific practices including the power breath, showering with awareness, creating anchors and magnifying wisdom. Some concepts, however, may sound near impossible for the ‘Super Busy’: accepting that there is no goal to achieve, that the application of effort only deters you from success, and that true mastery is unlikely, may sound. The surprising news is that busy people have already mastered all the skills needed to learn meditation: the ability to focus, to split your attention on multiple tasks, to overcome challenges, and to master subtlety. With this knowledge you can enter the practice, allowing each moment of application to create another link in the chain leading you to your center, to your calm. Having created this path, it can be re-traveled at any time: while riding in the back of a taxi, getting a cup of coffee, or waiting for the elevator. No matter your industry or your number of deadlines, Thornton supplies the essential guidebook for your journey into the ‘Super Calm.’

Reveiwed by Alec Franklor


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